Testimonials
“I started working with Hani at the beginning of 2023 via an introduction from a good friend of mine. I was skeptical to jump into this work because my previous therapist and I kind of hit a roadblock of progress. But in my heart, I knew that I wanted (and truly needed) to dig deeper and put more work in to becoming a version of myself that I wanted to love.
Hani has been a lifesaver…and that is no hyperbole. Until we started working together, I hadn’t realized how deeply closed off I had been due to past traumas, relationships, the state of the world…you name it. She provided a space for me to share safely what I wanted out of life, what type of connections I want to foster and grow and, ultimately, how that all ties back to getting me to show up as the truest version of myself in all that I do and with everyone that I meet.
In the last year and a half, my growth and overall outlook on life has dramatically shifted and that is VERY MUCH thanks to Hani and the incredible person that she is, the amazing work she does and being a guiding light for me in the world of darkness I didn’t even realize I was inhabiting.
Thank you, Hani. :)"
– Sharod
"Working with Hani has been one of the most healing and transformative experiences of my life. I learned about Sheelah through one of her previous clients. After feeling that talk therapy was no longer serving me, I decided to reach out. From our first session, I immediately felt safe, heard, and supported.
For most of my life, anxiety has been in control. I tend to be overly self-critical and perfectionistic, with a deep fear of being seen. The stories in my mind have held me back from pursuing the life I want, leading to unhealthy sexual experiences, staying in relationships too long, and struggling to say no.
Hani’s practice introduced me to a new way of healing, helping me recognize how much of my life I’ve spent disconnected from my body. In each session, she creates a warm and welcoming environment, offering a range of tools and strategies—from breathwork and visualizations to simply listening and providing a safe space. Her expertise and compassion have guided me on a journey toward self-acceptance that I never thought was possible. Before working with Hani, I couldn’t imagine loving my body, feeling capable, or believing I was good enough.
I’ve made more progress in four months of working with Hani than I did in years of talk therapy. I look forward to our sessions every week because I know I’ll leave feeling empowered, capable, and one step closer to my authentic self.
I truly don’t believe I’d be where I am today without Hani—I am incredibly grateful for her and cannot recommend her enough."
– Jocelyn Mastroianni (Female, age 32)
"I cocooned myself into the fabric of another person and called it home. I was not there as a chrysalid preparing to become a butterfly, but was merely hiding there to avoid facing my fears and self-doubts. In that place, I gave over my identity in the belief that I could morph into the marvellousness of that person without doing the work on myself. But then that person died.
A friend gave me Hani’s name and number and told me that Hani is wonderful. Yeah, ok, but I had never talked to a therapist before. I had never WANTED to talk to a therapist before. WHAT would I say to a therapist? Oh, my gawd! Would I have to tell her the truth about myself? Worse yet, would she see right through me?
Well, here we are, a year and a half after our initial Zoom meeting and I don’t know where my life would be had she not been there for me…with me on this journey. Hani teased me out of my cocoon like one gently teases a thorn from the paw of a suffering animal. She never poked or prodded, but gently, wisely and lovingly guided me in such a way that allowed me to break out of my cocoon at my pace and in a way that was comfortable for me.
Though an ocean separates us physically, each time we meet, I feel that Hani’s heart is right there with me when we talk. In addition to being deeply compassionate, Hani is incredibly wise, kind, keenly intuitive and has a fantastic memory. She doesn’t just hear what I say, she listens and remembers it all, processes it, then mirrors it back to me in a way that is immensely helpful and healing.
I cannot sing high enough praises for Hani. I thank her from the bottom of my heart for all she has helped me through."
– CH. (Female, age 60)
"I've been in and out of classical therapy for the past 25 years, and it's always been a grounding experience for me. So when I first came across Hani, I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect. I’ve never been one to shy away from new experiences, but there’s something about delving into the depths of self-exploration that can stir up feelings of resistance. For me, it’s often my ego clinging to old narratives like, “I’m not good enough,” or “I should have done this, achieved that.”
From the moment I began working with Hani, I felt something different—something remarkably effective and deeply resonant. Even though I didn’t see her primarily to deal with sexual issues, Hani’s philosophy that sexuality is the purest connection to ourselves, really spoke to me. By nurturing the connection to ourselves, we unlock potential in all aspects of life, and it goes well beyond sex. Hani helped me connect with my inner compass and her holistic approach helped me navigate long-held beliefs with a newfound sense of clarity and purpose.
Experiencing the connection between our minds, bodies, and spirits has allowed me to experience profound shifts, not only in my relationship with others but, more importantly, in my relationship with myself.”
– F. (Male, age 47)
"I was recommended to Hani by my physical therapist. Hani has been an incredible source of light & support in my life, getting me through extremely difficult times. She helped me reclaim my happiness & strength - for this, I am forever grateful for her & continue to see her till this day."
- Alex P. (age 32)
“Hani is a Queen. Her warmth, sensitivity, keen insight and deep embodiment were catalysts for my journey to heal from sexual trauma, live with fullness and invite more sensuality into my life. Thank you!”
- YS. (Female, age 45)
“Working with Hani is like poetry, fullfilling and healing the senses & traumas on an unconcious level.
There’s a specialness, excitment and emotion that resonates, making intimacy and vulnurbility a safe place.
My sessions with Hani feel like the ocean, opening my heart, wanting to be swept away and dance”
- CS. (age proud 62!)
“Working with Hani felt like dipping my toes in the water and landing fully into the ocean: she took me places that I was too scared to go alone. In the last two years, my inner world has become poignant, expansive, open and honest, and Hani was the catalyst who started unraveling the many knots within me. She taught me how to feel—to fully feel all my emotions and not be afraid of them. Fierce, tender, wise and compassionate, Hani is a manifestation of love, and I’m grateful for the ways in which she opened me up.”
- BJ.
"Hani’s sensual guidance and wisdom has lit me on fire for myself! The journey is empowering, deeply healing, and pleasurable. Women need her work now more than ever."
- Jane Stiles, Actress/Filmmaker
"What a stunning avenue to sink into, and honor, your feminine energy! It was a vivid reminder of how powerful we are as women, and how important it is to carry that out into the world. Having a safe space to build this kind of practice is so necessary, and having Hani as your guide is priceless. It was such a beautifully validating experience!"
- Jasmin Walker, Broadway Actress
"The Wild Feminine is a truly transformative experience for any woman interested in exploring sensuality and developing tools to incorporate a sensuality practice into her everyday life. Hani is a passionate, knowledgeable and inspired instructor who gently guides you into locating your own internal desires and taking ownership of them to fully experience and enjoy external pleasure (sexual and otherwise). I've learned through my work with Hani at the Wild Feminine that a sensuality practice is vital to self-expression, essential for human connection and cultivating creativity -- and a critical part of self-care. The workshops have helped me to find new layers of my own individuality, improved my self-perception and incited a renewed curiosity about what lights my soul on fire. The Wild Feminine is an especially important space for women in these modern times. "
- Deya Danielle Drake, Filmmaker/Producer
"Working with Hani has changed my life. As a woman in a long-term committed relationship I was not sure where to begin to feel into my sensuality, desire or pleasure. Hani has helped me to uncover who I am and what I want. Hani creates a beautiful, safe and sexy environment where experimentation and vulnerability are nurtured and celebrated."
- Beth Briggs, Career Coach
"These workshops should be a way and a reason for every woman to find and feel empowered by her own sensuality. I learned a lot in the workshops about what was holding me back from fully expressing my most sensual self. It was a fun and safe way to explore the parts of myself I didn't even know we're hiding. I recommend doing a class every month-- sensuality is like anything, it takes practice and commitment and Hani knows how to hold the most sacred space to allow you to fully explore."
- Danielle DuBoise, Founder of Sakara